The thought of gentle parenting seems weak. You wanna believe in it but it’s hard when you’re ready to choke your kid out.

Feminine Authority Formation is where you stop swinging between too tired to fight & too overstimulated to find patience.

It’s unlearning the idea that you have to choose between being “soft” & “effective” so you can love on your babies & hold your standards without needing to bark, beg, or blow up.