I haven’t set a resolution in ages. And this year, I’ve decided to go even deeper into my way of doing things.
The resolution thing was something I did because it was the common thing to do. But I didn’t ever stick to the things I said or actually achieve the resolution. It’s because that’s the wrong thing to focus on. And yea, I have vision boards but the magic isn’t in the board. My life won’t change just because I added the images in the Canva collage or pinned the things on my Pinterest board.
I’m leaning into my faith, Human Design, and archetype going into 2026 and honestly, I’m scared about being so loosey goosey with my life this year, but I want to see something. Instead of focusing on having or doing, I’m going to put all my eggs in the basket of being.
So what does this look like?
It starts with this entry into what will now be my virtual diary of sorts. Will I spill my deepest, darkest secrets across the interwebs? Of course not! But I will share my inner thoughts as appropriate with my tribe.
I will start my day, every day with God. I will end my day, every day with God. I will consistently do my business meetings, my daily reading, my weekly meetings, attending church and doing my best to live, love, and lead like Jesus.
I’m a Pure Generator and I’m not doing anything that feels draining. Right now, that feels like short form content. I’ve done that for years and it hasn’t really built my community the way I hoped. I literally have a community of women in Skool who are the quietest people in any of the communities I’m in. I’m sure that there are things I can do to be more engaging but they escape me at the moment. That won’t stop me from trying. I say that because they came to me largely from my Instagram and that’s not the vibe I want in the room. So…short form will be low on my priority list right now.
I feel energized when I write, speak at length on things, and I do enjoy being on camera. So YouTube, my podcast, and this blog will get the bulk of my attention. And while they will have related content, it won’t be the same thing regurgitated everywhere. Is that convenient from a production standpoint, yes. Would I want to have that as my experience of the people I want to follow, learn from, and be apart of their communities? Absolutely not. Decision made.
That’s important too. Making my decisions from my gut and trusting what God has blessed me with and my own intuition instead of asking for confirmation from ChatGPT that I’m on the right track. I’m going to try the things I feel moved to try. Ditch what I think doesn’t work anymore. Allow myself to be the innovative woman that I am.
And my archetype is that of Witch. That sounds crazy as far as my faith goes but it doesn’t mean spell-casting and wearing black all the time. It simply refers to my inclination to be perceptive and thoughtful before taking action. I believe in trusting my inner knowing and making any transformation from the inside out.
I’m not setting any goals. I’m defining my identity and then making it as easy as possible for me to operate in that identity. So who will I be?
A faithful woman who works like she’s working for God. A consistent woman who does what she says she’ll do. A healthy woman who will prioritize physical, mental, emotional, spiritual, and financial wellness. That means I won’t continue eating crap all day and skimping on sleep. I will monitor my stress and maintain my systems of keeping it low now that I’ve got it down pat. (I share it in detail in my book if you’re curious.) I’ll pay attention to the signals my emotions send me that require deeper reflection on what I need and do what I have to so that my needs are met. I already covered my spiritual ground. And financial wellness means I’ll be showing up consistently making offers like the sales savage I know I can be, not make frivolous purchases, and not be wasteful.
What comes out of that will be up to God. I have a whole Goal Success Coach certification that I’m throwing out the window right now. I don’t want any goals that aren’t tied to me showing up as who I say I’ll be. I’m not focusing on outcomes. This is the year of inputs.
